UNF Wins & a Pep Band Member Becomes a Sensation

My wife and I have been following the UNF Ospreys men's basketball team this year. I figure if our money goes to the school, we should become fans of these teams. (Our daughter will be graduating from UNF in May.) 

Once our responsibilities with our local high school boys' basketball team were complete, we made our way over to the UNF Arena to see a few games. These guys are exciting to watch. There's much that can be said about the Ospreys as they achieved the regular season Atlantic Sun Championship and then punched their dance card to the NCAA Tournament on Sunday by winning the Atlantic Sun Tournament. These guys are a joy to watch and to see the Arena packed on Sunday and students and fans rush the court at the sound of the final buzzer was incredible.

Yet, in the midst of the wins, in this age of social media and trends, there is one young man who is making a name for himself. At the first home game we attended this year, I said to my wife, "When UNF makes it to the championship game, that kid is going to be put on national television and become an instant hit."

I was right.

His name is Stephen Putnam and he plays baritone in the UNF Pep Band.

As in most college basketball arenas, there are songs that are played at certain times each game. For the Ospreys, one song is Lil Jon's "Turn Down for What." When the first beat is played, the crowd goes wild, the student section looks to the left and all attention is on Steven Putnam.

Yes, this happens every game.

 

And, his 15 minutes of fame will go on at least through the first round of the NCAA Tournament. UNF had better take their pep band to Dayton. I think they'll need this guy.

 And now, everyone knows where the University of North Florida is.


Silent Night - One of the Best Traditions Around

It's Christmas season and the carols are out, in abudance, being played EVERYWHERE! ALL. THE. TIME.

While "Silent Night" goes down as one of the most popular carols of all time, there is another "Silent Night" which is pretty incredible, in it's own right.

You probably already know about this tratition. It' takes place at Taylor University, a Christian school in Indiana (where the primary religion in the state is basketball.)

Every year, on the Friday before final exams, there is the annual "Silent Night Basketball Game." Students remain completely silent in the packed out gym (wearing some pretty elaborate pajamas and other costumes) until the 10th point is scored by the home team.

At the 10th point, the gym erupts.

So, here's this year's Silent Night. . .

 


How Does One of the Most Respected Coaches Become the Most Ridiculed?

Tony Dungy, former coach of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and Indianapolis Colts, current NFL analyst for NBC Sports, founder of All Pro Dad and Family First, husband, father, and outspoken follower of Jesus Christ has been moved from many people's lists of "Most Respected" to "Most Hated" in just a little over a week.

Ai_120485It all began with a a question posed to Dungy by a Tampa Tribune reporter a number of weeks ago. The question was about gay linebacker Michael Sam of the St. Louis Rams. Sam, who went public with his sexual orientation after a stellar career for the University of Missouri and prior to the NFL draft, is the first openly gay football player drafted by an NFL team.

Sam was a great college player, but even before his public announcement, was not considered a "sure thing" as an NFL lineman. As many in the northeast Florida area where I live know, just because a person excels at the college level does not always mean he will excel at the professional level.

Nevertheless, Sam's announcement skyrocketed him to cultural stardom as news agencies rushed to interview him, Oprah Winfrey attempted to chronicle his journey into professional football for a television show, and pro-LGBT groups and magazines labeled him a courageous figure.

Then, Dungy said this. . .

"I wouldn't have taken him," Dungy told Ira Kaufman of The Tampa Tribune. "Not because I don't believe Michael Sam should have a chance to play, but I wouldn't want to deal with all of it. It's not going to be totally smooth…things will happen."

Dungy's answer to a question by Kaufman has gone viral. 

Sportscasters, bloggers and many in the Twittersphere have labeled Dungy a "loser," "hater," "hypocrite," "bigot," and worse.

Arguments appear in op-ed pieces referencing Dungy's work with Michael Vick and his opinions regarding Tim Tebow as evidence that he is two-faced. Some have even sunk so low to create stories about Dungy's son who tragically committed suicide a while back, as ways to show Dungy's unloving nature. 

It's amazing and terribly sad.

It is wrong.

Read Dungy's original statement again - he said nothing that could be construed as "homophobic" or hateful. While it is public knowledge that Dungy has opposed measures to legalize gay marriage (as do many American citizens and the vast majority of evangelicals) his statements related to drafting Sam are purely his opinion. The problem is that his belief system is not politically correct and his Christianity places him (in good company, I might add) in a minority in our culture.

Nevertheless, though unecessary, Coach Dungy released this statement about his previous statement:

I was asked whether I would have drafted Michael Sam and I answered that would not have drafted him. I gave my honest answer, which is that I felt drafting him would bring much distraction to the team. At the time of my interview, the Oprah Winfrey reality show that was going to chronicle Michael's first season had been announced.

I was not asked whether or not Michael Sam deserves an opportunity to play in the NFL. He absolutely does.

I was not asked whether his sexual orientation should play a part in the evaluation process. It should not.

I was not asked whether I would have a problem having Michael Sam on my team. I would not. ...

... I do not believe Michael's sexual orientation will be a distraction to his teammates or his organization.

I do, however, believe that the media attention that comes with it will be a distraction. Unfortunately we are all seeing this play out now, and I feel badly that my remarks played a role in the distraction.

A good, but unecessary statement. Dungy's explanation will do little to placate those who have already categorized him negatively. 

I respect Coach Dungy, not just for his ability to coach professional athletes, but for the leadership qualities he has shown, the love of Christ that comes forth when I hear him interviewed, the stances he has taken on biblical manhood, parenting and marriage.

As culture shifts at breakneck speed, many in our communities and churches struggle with how to live "in the world" but not "of the world." A child of God cannot simply ignore biblical truth and the transformational power of the Spirit of God. God's Word and His Truth is never celebrated by the world. It never has been. It never will be. Therefore, instances like Dungy's will happen, again and again, and more often.

I always wondered how long Dungy could remain in the public eye before being labeled this way. 

Regardless how many are taking Dungy's quotes, it seems to me that he is exactly the same man who was highly respected, regarded and loved by many.

 

Stand firm, Coach Dungy. You do not stand alone.

The world cannot hate you (regarding Jesus' brothers who did not follow Him), but it hates me because I testify about it that its works are evil. John 7:7 (ESV) 

 


Selection Sunday & Eternity

Today is "Selection Sunday." For those who do not care about college basketball, this designation is meaningless. However, for the rest of us, who find this month to be the best time of the year for sports, this is a significant day. It is during March that grown men (and women) start talking about Cinderella. March Madness becomes an important focus as brackets are filled out (just for fun, of course.) Fan bases are developed for colleges and universities that have fewer students than many high schools in our area. 

Magic-birdNames and terms like. . .

  • Wooden
  • Bird
  • Magic
  • Valpo
  • Valvano
  • Villanova
  • Massimino
  • Ewing
  • Phi Slamma Jamma
  • Butler
  • Dunk City
  • Coach K
  • Rupp
  • Manning
  • Donovan
  • Pitino
  • Knight

. . . and many others enter back into the lexicon and people reminisce of games and tournaments from the past.

Today, there are already numerous teams who "have their tickets punched" due to winning their individual conference tournaments. Others are definitely in based on their record, RPI and conference.

Still others wait.

Players gather with teammates and coaches to see if the selection committee will deem them worthy of an at-large bid to the biggest tournament of the year. Uncertainty hovers over them like a cloud. It's a terrible place to be, especially when the last team name is placed on the board. . .and their name is left off. Oh, there's the NIT, and while there was a time years ago when the NIT was more highly esteemed than the NCAA, everyone knows that today there's only one tournament that really matters. Everything else is just a consolation.

I fear that many people see eternity like these players. People live their lives. . .trying to do more good than bad. They come to the end of their lives, hoping. They hope that somehow, in their understanding of heaven and fairness, that God will let them into heaven. Yet, they're unsure. They're unsure because. . .well, they're record wasn't very good. 

They are basing their entire hopes on eternity on a metric that doesn't work.

They have missed the reality that they can never be good enough.

Eternity isn't like Selection Sunday. God is not writing names down in his book based on how good we are or can be. Reservations aren't secured because we deserve to be there. In fact, none of us deserve heaven.

Yet, some of us have heaven as our eternal destination. We don't get heaven because we're good enough, or better than others, or deserve it. For those of us who do, we're not going to be sweating it out with our teammmates (or family, or even alone) at the end of our lives. Our hope is secure because of Jesus Christ alone.

I pray that you know this reality. I pray your name is in God's book. Settle this today by surrendering your life to Christ and receiving His free gift.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God. Ephesians 2:8 (ESV)


Wisdom from Coach Wooden

There are many celebrities in this world. Our culture loves creating them. Often, we like to create them just so we can enjoy picking them apart to watch them crumble. It is a sad state of being that we have created, or at least enabled.

Sometimes you come across a celebrity who does not put on airs. What you see on television, on the stage or in the magazines is actually an accurate depiction of the real person. Unfortunately, this is often true about those celebrities that are anything but role models and quality people. In other words, they are just as bad as their image portrays them.

Then, there are those who seem to be pretty nice people. People with integrity who are honest. These are the ones of whom you could say, "I'd like to spend some time with them." 

Coach John Wooden (1910 - 2010) was one such man. 

John Wooden largeI had the great privilege of meeting Coach in 1987 at a basketball coaches clinic in Arlington, Texas. My team, the Texas Wesleyan Rams, had been chosen to be the "conference team" for Coach as he talked to area coaches about life principles and then showed how he ran a practice back in the days of Walton, Alcinder and Wilkes at UCLA. So, I now get to tell people that I played basketball for Coach John Wooden (and I do tell them this!) even if just for a few hours long after his days at UCLA.

As I have read biographies and leadership books on Coach Wooden, it becomes clear that here was a man of integrity who was very successful as a player and a coach (Hall of Famer as both,) but moreso as a husband, father, and man of God. His "pyramid of success" hangs in my office as a reminder of much that he had learned and taught (and continues to teach even four years after his death) to many.

Here are some quotes and words of wisdom from Coach that sometimes make me smile and often make me go "Oh. . .yeah. Hmmm."

  • I wanted my players to know I truly cared about them. I loved them all. I didn't like them all. And some of them didn't like me all the time. But today I'm closer to many of my players than I was when they played for me.
  • You can lose when you outscore somebody in a game, and you can win when you are outscored.
  • Make your effort to do the very best you can. That's what I wanted from my teams more than anything else.
  • Leadership from a base of hypocrisy undermines respect, and if people don't respect you, they won't willingly follow you.
  • Be slow to correct and quick to commend.
  • I never yelled at my players much. That would have been articificial stimulation, which doesn't last very long. I think it's like love and passion. Passion won't last as long as love.
  • As a coach, there were a few rules I pretty much stuck to: Never be late. Be neat and clean. I was a stickler for that. At practice, we started on time and we closed on time. And not one word of profanity. If I see it in a game, you're coming out.
  • One time, Bill Walton showed up for practice, looking unkempt. "It's my right," he told me. "That's good, Bill," I replied. "I admire people who have strong beliefs and stick by them. We're going to miss you."
  • Once, one of my players was asked if I ever used profanity. "Absolutely, he replied, "Goodness, gracious, sakes alive" is profanity for Coach."
  • Ability may get you to the top, but you need character to keep you there.
  • What you are as a person is far more important than what you are as a basketball player.
  • I don't want to be like the guy in church who coughs loudly just before putting money into the offering plate.
  • Talent is God-given; be humble. Fame is man-given; be thankful. Conceit is self-given; be careful.
  • Truth will always stand the test of scrutiny.
  • There is no substitute for hard work. If you are looking for the easy way, the shortcut. . . you'll not be developing your talents.
  • Failure to act is often the biggest failure of all.
  • Discipline yourself and others won't need to.
  • Kindness makes for much better teamwork.
  • A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player.
  • Players today are better than ever; I don't think the teams are.
  • You have to be a friend to have a friendship. It isn't one-way.
  • The main ingredient of stardom is the rest of the team.
  • Concentrate on what you do have, not on what you don't.
  • Time spent getting even would be better spent getting ahead.
  • My father gave me a two-dollar bill for my grade school graduation. He said, "Hold on to this, and you'll never go broke." I still have it. A lot of times, that's all I've had. But I've never been broke.
  • Don't let making a living prevent you from making a life.
  • If I were ever prosecuted for my religion, I truly hope there would be enough evidence to convict.
  • The most I made coaching was $32,500. Maybe I didn't have a multi-million-dollar contract like Shaquille O'Neal, but he'll never know what it was like to get a good meal for twenty-five cents.
  • Ability is a poor man's wealth.
  • There is nothing stronger than gentleness.
  • To achieve significance, it's a good idea to select an activity for which God has given us at least a measure of skill.
  • Don't call me Wizard [of Westwood]. I'm no wizard!
  • Be quick, but don't hurry.
  • Young people need role models, not critics.
  • Pick up your own orange peels.
  • Never mistake activity for achievement.
  • I don't believe in praying to win a game.
  • It's what you learn after you know it all that counts.
  • If you don't have time to do it right, when will you do it over?
  • Consider the rights of others before your own feelings and the feelings of others before your own rights.
  • We can give without loving, but we can't love without giving. In fact, love is nothing unless we give it to someone.
  • God can be trusted, even when life seems at its darkest. From the cross, God declares, "I love you. I know the heartaches and the sorrows and the pains you feel, but I love you."

Thanks Coach!

_________________

Coach John Wooden Winning With Principle. N.p.: B & H, 2013. Print.


It's Really More Than "Just a Game"

Last night I was taken back in time. I might as well have hopped into Doc Brown's DeLorean, engaged the flux capacitor and sped up to 88 mph. However, this journey didn't take place in the movies. It took place in a gymnasium.

424_2014_SENIORS2_copyI was sitting in the stands watching my son and his teammates (Fleming Island High School Golden Eagles) play their last basketball game of the season. For the seniors, like my son, it would be the last time they would be wearing the high school uniform and suiting up as a team. I could evaluate the game, but there's no need. Our team is good, but they weren't on last night and subsequently, when the final buzzer sounded, not only had the game ended, but so had their season.

This "time machine" took me back to a gymnasium in South Grand Prairie, Texas. It was February 1986 and I remember it like it was yesterday. Our high school team had made it to the state playoffs and all we had to do was win this game to get to the next step, which would require renting a charter bus and traveling from Fort Worth to Midland. This was a BIG DEAL! No team from our high school had ever made it that far.

We had already rented the bus.

We were mentally playing that next game in Midland.

There was only one problem. We hadn't yet beat South Grand Prairie.

And. . .we didn't.

The final buzzer sounded. It was surreal. I remember sitting on the bench at the end of the game, looking across that court with this unbelievable sadness engulfing me.

This was it.

I mentally knew that eventually this would end, but it just always seemed so far out there. It seemed unreal.

I know, it's part of growing up, but as I look back today, I can see why this was so difficult. 

For years I had been a basketball player. It comes with being taller than my peers. I was always asked "Hey, do you play basketball?"

I would proudly answer "Yes" and tell them my team name.

I played a couple of more years in college and eventually that ended as well, and once again, the flood of emotions came.

When the final buzzer sounded I was confused, sad and maybe a little depressed? Why? Part of it was due to the fact that when one is on a team (whether it be sports related or otherwise) there is a comaradarie that develops. While teammates may not be best friends, they have shared much together. This common sharing of games, wins, losses, practices, preparation, pep rallies, etc. creates a sense of brotherhood (or sisterhood if it's a ladies' team) that is unmatched in other venues. It's hard to explain, but if you have ever been on such a team, you understand.

For me, every season had an end, but this was different. No more would I don the uniform of this team. No more would I work with these guys for this common goal. This chapter was over.

Worst of all, I had so embraced the title "basketball player" that it had become my identity. Hey, I was only a teenager and labels come flying at you from all directions. This was mine and I was proud of it. However, that part of who I was was over. 

As a follower of Christ, I know (and continue to learn) that my identity is not based on what I do, where I live or a title given to me by others. My identity is "in Christ" alone. It's just that maturing to a place of understanding and embracing this reality takes time. I really didn't get that at seventeen.

So, as I watched my son's team finish off their season, I was proud of all they had accomplished. I am proud of our coach, Ivan Gunder, whom I call friend, for the mentoring and work he has done for these boys. At the same time, I was hurt. I was hurt for the coaches and the players. I saw tears well up in many of the boys' eyes (especially the seniors) and I knew what they were feeling. I was back at South Grand Prairie High School all over again.

Yes, for those who play the game, it's often more than "just a game." It's the end of an important chapter. Sure, it really is just a game in a sense, but not for these players. 

That's why it's so hard for many athletes to retire.

May these young men discover their identity in Christ and I pray they will one day be able to look back on this chapter in their life with no regrets.


Rebooting Upward: The Challenge to Avoid Consumerism & Be Missional

There are very few ministries marketed to the local church that truly embrace the concept of living missionally. Those which do are often corrupted by the consumerist mindset that is so very difficult to escape in our culture.

For years we have hosted Upward Basketball and Cheerleading at First. Each year has been eventful and fun. Children have played basketball and cheered in our league who otherwise would never have had the opportunity. Some have excelled and gone on to play on our local junior high and high school teams. Families have come to church. Some for the very first time. Lives have been transformed as some have come to Jesus Christ as Savior.

Upward-Basketball6-1024x855Has Upward been successful at First? Well, sure. . .on some scorecards. How could anyone say that children coming to know Christ personally and families being engaged for the sake of the Gospel is bad? It is not. 

Last year, our Upward Basketball and Cheerleading sports ministry was shelved for a year. There were numerous reasons, primarily based upon the lack of registration and scholarship funds available. It frustrated some, angered others and disappointed many. As I look back, it is clear (remember, hindsight is 20/20) that cancelling Upward last year was the very best thing to do.

Why? This clearing of the calendar has allowed us to take an honest, focused look at the ministry. Evaluation of the "why" of Upward has been essential.

We are starting Upward up again this year. I'm pretty excited about this reboot.

We are not rebooting the ministry based on the desires of Christians who want a league for their church-attending children (though, we desire that many in our church participate.)

We are not starting again just to add something else on the calendar. That actually goes against our core beliefs. Remember, busy-ness is not God's business. Burned out believers are not our desire.

We are not beginning again just to get the next Upward shirt for our personal collections (though I actually like those coaching shirts.)

We are intentionally and strategically rebooting Upward Basketball and Cheerleading at First as a missional expression. How can this be? The term "missional" actually describes the church, being the church, outside the building in which it gathers. It would be missional for believers to volunteer to coach in a local sports league such as OPAA or FIAA (which we encourage.) But, to create a "Christian" version of a local sports league does not actually fit nicely in the missional box. . .in most cases.

So, why do Upward again? How can it be missional?

We are in a unique situation in our community when it comes to this league. While the majority of churches (based on discussions with leaders at Upward and other churches) tend to only gather church kids and friends in their leagues, our league, based on our connections with local schools, has actually been effective in bringing in children and families totally disconnected from church. 

Is that missional?

It can be, but it requires intentionality and strategic planning.

If Upward is seen only as a children's ministry for kids in the church. . .well, we need to shelve it again. That does little more than prop up Christian consumerism, which is the polar opposite of missional living. However, if we understand and remember that Upward is one of the greatest connecting ministries with our local community, we must move forward. Very few activities at the local church actually draw unchurched people from the community. Upward does. At least it does here.

As we move forward, pray for the leadership team guiding this endeavor. Pray for the children in our local schools and neighborhoods who need to know Christ as Savior.

The harvest is ripe. Workers are needed. Pray that God's people will respond and step into this opportunity to live missionally (and have fun in the process) by serving and volunteering in Upward this season.

Do you not say, ‘There are yet four months, then comes the harvest’? Look, I tell you, lift up your eyes, and see that the fields are white for harvest. John 4:35 (ESV)


What Does Jason Collins "Coming Out" Mean?

On Monday, April 29, journeyman NBA center Jason Collins released a statement of his coming out as gay. My first reaction to hearing of this "landmark" announcement by an active player in one of our four major professional sports leagues was, "Who is Jason Collins?"

Suddenly a player who averaged 3.6 points per game, 3.8 rebounds per game and 0.9 assists per game in an 11 year NBA career is the most talked about player in the nation. During the season of the NBA Playoffs featuring LeBron, Durant, Wade and a host of other superstars, this story moves to the front page. Jason Collins now makes on the cover of Sports Illustrated. Unfortunately, it's not because of his skill on the court. Nevertheless, the nation knows who Jason Collins is.

The story truly isn't about basketball. In fact, I expect our next headline will be an active NFL player or MLB player stepping out in this way. Based on the reaction publicized in the media, it's a given.

What does Collins' coming out mean for me? Not much, honestly. However, it does once more reveal that we are now in the season where to be LBGT is not only accepted, but celebrated.

In Albert Mohler's Tuesday Briefing, he shares of the "overwhelming celebration of homosexuality and the marginalization of all who disagree." He's right. According to media reports, the adulation placed on Collins is huge. Tweets and quotes from current and former players, coaches, Presidents, and others who have come out as LBGT is immense.

Statements of affirmation get top billing in reports:

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However, those, who dare to say anything somewhat critical or concerning about Collins's statement or the homosexual lifestyle are being, predictably, labeled as close-minded, hate-filled, and uninformed. We are living in the day that was predicted by Josh McDowell years ago in his book Right From Wrong, where tolerance is the norm, but only tolerance of things outside biblical mores and long-held Judeao-Christian ethics.

This is evidenced in the response to comments made by ESPN analyst Chris Broussard on Outside the Lines. I applaud Broussard's consistency in his statements and am not surprised that he is being demonized by many. His statement is as follows:

"I'm a Christian. I don't agree with homosexuality. I think it's a sin, as I think all sex outside of marriage between a man and a woman is. [ESPN's] L.Z. [Granderson] knows that. He and I have played on basketball teams together for several years. We've gone out, had lunch together, we've had good conversations, good laughs together. He knows where I stand and I know where he stands. I don't criticize him, he doesn't criticize me, and call me a bigot, call me ignorant, call me intolerant.

"In talking to some people around the league, there's a lot Christians in the NBA and just because they disagree with that lifestyle, they don't want to be called bigoted and intolerant and things like that. That's what LZ was getting at. Just like I may tolerate someone whose lifestyle I disagree with, he can tolerate my beliefs. He disagrees with my beliefs and my lifestyle but true tolerance and acceptance is being able to handle that as mature adults and not criticize each other and call each other names.

"... Personally, I don't believe that you can live an openly homosexual lifestyle or an openly premarital sex between heterosexuals, if you're openly living that type of lifestyle, then the Bible says you know them by their fruits, it says that's a sin. If you're openly living in unrepentant sin, whatever it may be, not just homosexuality, adultery, fornication, premarital sex between heterosexuals, whatever it may be, I believe that's walking in open rebellion to God and to Jesus Christ. I would not characterize that person as a Christian because I do not think the Bible would characterize them as a Christian."

The above statement was actually a clarification of what was said earlier and it is apparent that he has thought through this and is not being swayed. While some have seen and will see it as hateful words, the reality is that a proper reading (if an unbiased one is even possible) shows nothing more than an individual stating what he believes based on his faith and personal mores.

I know there are many who see the LGBT lifestyle as wrong. For some, it's based on their faith. For others, it is based on personal feelings. Regardless of the reason, it is true that those who dare speak out against the lifestyle, especially in our current culture, will find themselves marginalized and considered uncaring, unloving and wrong, in addition to many other labels.

No, homosexuality is not the biggest sin out there. It's not the only sin. It's not the worst sin. But, it is sin.

I don't know Jason Collins, but from all that's been said about him from former teammates, coaches, friends and current players, he is a great guy. He is the kind of friend anyone would want. He is now more than a journeyman basketball player. He is the face of the gay athlete in America (sorry, Martina and Greg Louganis) and will be touted as an inspiration for high school, college and other pro athletes to declare their LGBT affinity publicly.

I don't think he should be demonized by those who disagree. That will happen and it's unfortunate.

What should be the response of Christ followers to Collins and others who struggle with same-sex attraction? (Yes, I used the term "struggle with same-sex attraction" rather than "who are LGBT" and that was intentional.) We should respond as Jesus stated when asked what the greatest commandment was. . .

And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.” - Luke 10:27 (ESV)

We must remember that love does not mean affirm. Jesus loved sinners (that would be all of us, by the way) but did not say "Just stay the way you are." Sin is a cancer that spreads quickly. We are all infected and all sin is equal (that's hard to fathom) and we all need a Savior.

Oh, I understand there's an agenda. I know there's a concerted movement at work. Still, in the midst of all of that are individuals in need of life, a life that is full and free and clean.

That's what Jesus offers.

That's why we're here.


REAL Manhood: Dan Werner - Dad & Coach

As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. Psalm 103:13(ESV)

Dan Werner is an excellent football coach. He has been coaching for over twenty-five years. Werner worked as an assistant coach at numerous colleges over the years. Schools such as Cornell, Louisiana Tech, James Madison, Murray State, UNLV Auburn, Miami and Mississippi appear on his resume. 

Dan met his wife Kim in 1993 at a party in Ruston, Louisiana where he coached at Louisiana Tech. Kim and Dan were a perfect match an football was a common love. They fell in love with each other and were married. There would be many moves in their future. Moving is always traumatic for a family, Dan told Kim, but much less traumatic than having nowhere to go.

DanWerner220nocred_061512Kim and Dan soon had two children, a daughter named Maya and a couple of years later, their son Ian arrived. Ian would soon be diagnosed with autism. This took a toll on the family, especially Kim, since she was the primary care-giver while Dan was working and traveling.

Then, the phone call came. Dan was on the road when he received the news. Kim was dead. She was just 37 and in great health, but had an enlarged heart. Dan was grieving and so were the kids.

He knew he could not be the father he had to be and continue working as he had been. In the past, he justified that Kim would take care of everything at home. That was no longer an option.

Dan resigned from his college job. A small private school in Batesville, Mississippi was looking for a football coach. The headmaster of the school had been praying for an experienced coach, but this was ridiculous. Werner was overqualified, but he took the job.

This coaching job would mean stability. He could coach and provide for his family, but more important, he’d be able to be at home with his children and give them a sense of normalcy as they grew through their grief together. It was a healing time for the Werners.

He coached successfully for a number of years before Ole Miss called again. This time it was different. The Ole Miss coach was an old friend who offered Werner the job of Co-Offensive Coordinator/Quarterbacks Coach. The difference? He would have time to be with his family. After consulting his children and gaining their approval, he once again is coaching college football.

Dan Werner was given an opportunity to shirk his responsibility. He could have justified in his mind the torrid work schedule, but he didn’t. He gave up the dream job to work at a high school. He did this and accepted the higher calling and responsibility.


When Sportianity & Christianity Collide

The largest religion in our culture is being challenged. People who adhere to this religion are having their faith questioned. 

This religion is known as Sportianity. Adherants gather weekly, and sometimes more than once a week, to celebrate and fellowship together. Some meet in large open-air facilities. Others meet in smaller venues. Others are proponents of the "house church" movement and gather with a small group of friends in homes. The more missional of the followers meet in public places known as Sports Bars, to engage with others in the community. 

Just as with all religions, different denominations have developed.

There are the Footballists and Basketballists. These two denominations, like many other mainstream ones, are divided. There are the College and Pro sect within each denomination. Sometimes they can fellowship together, but often they stay in their own arenas.

There is also the Baseballians. There is a small offshoot group here called the Collegians, but the vast majority are Major Leaguians. 

For the most part a follower of a certain sect is very faithful, but there are those - we call them "stadium hoppers" - who tend to just go where the biggest crowd is at the time. 

Meeting places for these denominational groups can be found throughout the nation. However, there are some pretty strong regional groupings. Where I live, the SECers dominate. I must say that recently, the SECers have expanded their mission program into Texas and most likely will continue to grow in that region.

In the north, there are some unique religious groups. These are known as Hockeyists. They're a uniquely northern denomination, but with snowbirds and the retirement of many, there have recently been more of these people spotted in the southern parts of the nation.

We can laugh about this, well at least I can, but at the same time it brings to mind some questions. As a follower of Jesus Christ, where does this sports world fit? I'm a proud member of the Y-chromosome club. I enjoy sporting events. I have my favorite teams. I have the hats, the shirts and the jackets with logos embroidered upon them. I enjoy going to the games. I like cheering for these athletes who do amazing things on the field of play.

So, does God care?

Does God have a favorite team?

TebowingThere are a number of teams with religious names. Does that mean God likes them more? Is God a fan of the Saints, the Angels, the Padres or for my Catholic friends - the Cardinals? Or, as some have stated, is God a fan of the Denver Broncos because Tim Tebow is the quarterback?

I'm not a Tebow-basher. Neither am I big-time Tebow fan. I like him. I respect him. As a brother in Christ, I admire his willingness to verbally give glory to Jesus Christ. The Tebow story has pushed Christianity to the forefront of the sports page. This is why it's so interesting. Two of the nation's top religions are meeting - the religion of Christianity and the religion of sports. 

I think this is why so many people have a problem with Tebow. Much has been said about "Tebowing" and his camera ready prayer poses. Tebow even reached a pinnacle in pop culture. He was parodied on Saturday Night Live.

Does God show favor to certain athletes or teams?

NO - God doesn't show favor as many would define it. God doesn't care that Team A beats Team B so that a person's Fantasy numbers will go up. God doesn't show favor so those who have bet on games can beat the spread. God doesn't love the Christian on Team A more than he loves the Christian on Team B

YES - God does show favor on His children at times. This word "favor" has been used by some who teach a false prosperity gospel. This is not the biblical definition. A good biblical example of one in whom favor was shown is Daniel. There are others like Moses, John the Baptist, etc. 

Whether God is showing favor on Tim Tebow or any other athlete can be debated at length. Regardless of the influence of God in a football game, there is only one reason He would show favor on anyone - that is to bring Himself glory.

I don't believe God cares if the Broncos win. I do believe God cares about Tim Tebow just as he cares and loves all His children (regardless what team they're on, or even if they never even make the team.)

Even the fictional coach in the film "Facing the Giants" understood this. Win or lose, God receives glory. He said this over and over.

I like this quote former University of Texas quarterback Colt McCoy made after his team was beat soundly by the University of Alabama in the 2009-2010 BCS National Championship Game. ABC reporter Lisa Salters interviewed McCoy and McCoy responded to a difficult question about how it felt watching the game from the sidelines, with the question alluding to how difficult it must have been that his college career ended so abruptly in the biggest game of his life.

Said McCoy: “I always give God the glory. I never question why things happen the way they do. God is in control of my life. And I know that if nothing else, I’m standing on the Rock.”

Win or lose - this is right response. To God be the glory.