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Yes, We're Requiring Face Masks for In-Person Services ... And We Know Not Everyone Will Be Happy

Due to the recent upticks in COVID-19 cases, the City of Jacksonville, Florida (COJ) enacted an Executive Order for face masks to be worn in public indoor spaces. The mask issue has been one of the most debated this year (and that is saying much based on everything else that people are angry about in 2020.) The church I pastor is located in Orange Park, Florida. Orange Park is a suburb of Jacksonville. We are not in the city limits (or Duval County limits) and are not required to comply with the COJ's mandate.

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Based on this decision and subsequent ones encouraging masks in our county and other regions in northeast Florida, we will be requiring masks for those ages six and older attending in-person worship services on Sunday. Once people are seated and are distanced from others outside their household, the masks may be removed if necessary. However, we do recommend wearing them while singing (which, of course is a challenge, but the concern is the spread produced from singing.) We do desire that attendees sing. Actually, we have desired this for decades, but that is another story.

Just so you know, I have heard the concerns and see the online comments. Here are my responses to a few of the most common statements:

  • "We are not in Duval County and therefore, the City of Jacksonville rulings do not apply to us." - That is true. Yet, we do have members who live in Jacksonville. We also know that often the decisions made in Jacksonville impact the subsequent ones made in our county. So...we're just ahead of the game a bit.
  • "Face masks do not help." - I've heard this. You've heard this. Some have said this. Maybe they do help, maybe they do not. I am pretty confident they do not harm, so that is pretty important here (Yes, I've heard some who postulate that they are breathing in too much carbon dioxide and other concerns, too, but overall it seems that those in the medical profession are not discouraging the wearing of masks.)
  • "It's all political. There's no real issue. It's all overblown." - I've heard all this as well. It's an election year so everything is political. While I cannot speak on the details of the virus and/or the spread, I know there are as many opinions on this as there are cable news, online news, and other outlets giving insight and information. I have learned over the years that every side has an "expert" and sometimes what is presented as news is simply entertainment (entertainment designed to keep angry people angry and frustrated people frustrated which leads to more hits online, more viewers, and more return readers.) So...while there may be a conspiracy at work and one day when we get to heaven we can ask that (we won't because we won't care) for today...we're asking you to wear masks.
  • "Wearing a mask is showing a lack of faith or trust in God." - Believe me, way too many people lack faith. Yet, to wear a face mask, from my perspective, does not reveal a lack of faith. From a missional perspective, I see it as showing care for others and seeking to not shut down opportunities for true, gospel conversations. As for showing a lack of trust in God, I ask "Do you wear seatbelts in your car?" You likely do (and should) not only because it is the law, but because it is the smart thing to do. When first required by law, it was hard to get used to wearing seat belts every time I entered a car. Over time, it became second-nature and now if someone is in my car, I make them wear their seat belt before beginning our journey. Why? Because I want them to arrive safely or to be safe in case there is an accident. We have been told (yeah...I know, can we trust who is telling us? I hope so.) to wear masks because it may keep someone else from getting sick. So, we ask you to wear them for your sake, but also for others. It's a practical way to show that you actually take seriously the second portion of the Great Commandment. At least it won't eliminate a conversation about Christ and his love for others and how we as Christians love as well. 
  • "Other churches aren't requiring masks." - That's the joy of autonomy. Nevertheless, since churches tend to watch what others are doing, some who have not required masks will see that we and others are and begin to do so. And, there will be some who will continue to not require masks, not encourage masks, and will do as they choose. I pray that we do not see massive outbreaks in local churches, especially where unwise risks are being taken under the guise of faith. Sadly, poor choices by some impact all (and this has been the case for centuries in the church, so not just relegated to pandemic responses.)
  • "It's hard to breathe when I wear a mask." - I know. Sorry.
  • "My glasses fog up when I war a mask." - Mine too. I hate that. Sorry.
  • "Everything smells like my breath." - Yep. Gross. Chew gum or get a mint.
  • "Being told to wear this is like persecution." - Nope. It's not like persecution. It's like wearing a mask.

I don't intend to anger anyone or upset you, but as your pastor, I ask you to please comply with this request if you attend in-person services. Believe me, based on the comments I have received, your fellow church members will and do appreciate it. 

If you have medical reasons why you cannot wear a mask for long periods or find yourself feeling constricted or unable to breathe, then when you get to your seat, safely distanced from others, remove it. Or, just don't put yourself in the position to be angry, frustrated, or disappointed that you are being asked to wear it. Stay home. Be safe. Join us online at 11am for our livestream of the worship service on either our YouTube or Facebook pages (links at firstfam.org.)

I believe having to wear masks will be temporary.

I pray it is.

You know why?

Because I don't like wearing a face mask...but I will for your sake.

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